Autoplot- a conditioned response that requires no thought or reflection.
1) Think about a recent conversation in which you got defensive.
Talking with Jesse about helping around the house.
When I get defensive, I recoil. There is the chance that my feelings are guiding me rather than logic. I try my best to hear the other person out while floating out a hint of my opinion on the matter. If the hint is not received well, I just clam up. I imagine there's no way they will even consider considering my perspective.
Until...I've stored up my opinions and feelings for too long and explode, without being able to control the flow of pent-up feelings.
Transformation Conversations
Telling the truth about what is so for my life
B) Vision for who/what/how you will be in the
C- Clear: Be specific and authentic about what happened and the meaning you gave it
A- Authentic
P- Passionate: Intensity of convo, body language, etc. The other person needs to know you're serious about this.
These conversations are successful if the other person is touched, moved and inspired.
This coming week is week 5
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